29.6.10

Our gift of Joy arrives

Rebekah Joy
Our little Rebekah Joy arrived Tuesday June 15th at 5:26pm weighing in it at 7 lbs 7oz with a little bit of dark hair and dark blue eyes.

The day before is when everything started to begin. Monday morning I started having contractions. Which I thought were surely just Braxton Hicks because they were not painful at all just annoying. But they were consisitant. After lunch I noticed I was still having them so Dan and I started timing them. They were consistantly 20 minutes apart. We were still going about our daily activities. Dan's grandparents had just got into to town and were staying at the Casino Hotel in town which had an indoor pool. We ended up sticking around at the pool and watching Dan and Halle swim all aftrernoon. The contractions were still there. They actually started gradually growing closer together like 12-13 minutes apart but still not painful at all. I still felt that this was surely not it. BUt my hopes were high. After a LONG afternoon of swimming in that HOT...HOT room we all headed to dinner at the Olive Garden. I felt that the contractions were a little bit stronger now but still not close to painful. We started timing them on Dan's cool and very useful iphone app. Turns out the contractions had grown to 7 to 8 minutes apart. Yeah!!! We all got kind of excited now and a bit anxious hoping this was it. I went a head before calling the doctor and ate as much as I could of that yummy pasta!!! We got on the phone with the doctor and they said to take a warm bath and 1000 mg of tylenol. So I headed to the jacuzzi tub in Grandma's hotel room. After an hour in the tub, the contractions were still there and still consistent. I held off going in until they picked up in pain or grew closer together. I actually got a great night's sleep and then woke up at 5 am to some more painful cramping but still 7 minutes apart. These I actually had to breath through some but nothing that wasn't bearable. Dan and I decided to head in. We found out I was dilated to a good 5 and completely soft and contractions were coming on consistently. They admitted me at 8 am and moved me into a really comfy room. Dan and I did some walking and played alot of scrabble on his ipad for the next few hours. They gave me the epidermal around lunch time and shortly after that broke my water. We started the pushing around 5:10pm. I only had to push 3 times and our beautiful baby girl Rebekah Joy arrived at 5:26pm that Tuesday evening. We were blessed to have such a smooth pregnancy. It went sooo great! The hospital was amazing. The doctor and nurses were wonderful. We conversated with the doctor and nurses the whole time. They were so kind and so helpful with everything. They brought me cheesecake at every meal and warm cookies for snacks. YUM!

Rebekah was a great baby from the first moments. She latched right away and has been an incredible eater. She nurses so well and so fast. She slept through the first night for one four hour stretch and has not had her nights and days mixed up at all. She has done so well at night. She hardly ever cries and she likes to sit in her bouncy most of the day and watch me chase around her big sis Halle. She sleeps very well in her crib. Rebekah Joy has had such a sweet personality and countenance from day 1. She loves to look at you and somewhat smile quite often, with the occasional coo. I was not sure how I would be able to love another as much as I love Halle, but I totally can and do. My love for her is growing more and more everyday.

At Rebekah Joy's first doctor's visit (at 2 weeks old) she had gained two pounds! I was concerned because she was only eating for about 10 minutes total (both sides) and I could not get her to eat anymore. I was afraid she wasn't getting any of that hind milk. If I tried to get her to keep going, she would spit it all up...projectile! But evidently she is just a fast and effective eater. Because her doctor seemed happy and astounded at the weight gain. It is a real blessing with having to take care of Halle also. Halle would eat for 40 to 45 minutes when she was this age.


Grandma Ruby and Bob (Dan's mom, Karen's mom and step dad) were able to visit and be here when Rebekah Joy arrived.
We were so blessed to have Karen and Doug there to help take care of Halle when we were in the hospital. This is Halle meeting her baby sister for the first time.
Uncle Mike was able to be here too.
Here is Grandpa Bob with our little Joy.

This was Rebekah Joy's first bath.

We had to cancel PROXY that Wednesday night but all the leaders came to visit! It was special to have all the visitors and kind gifts in the hospital. We are blessed to be surrounded by some incredible people. We love you guys.
So all together Halle seriously probably got more gifts than Rebekah did during the months and days leading up to Rebekah coming and even the days after. She got sooooo much stuff! It was so sweet of everyone to think of Halle and how she would be feeling with a new little sister in the house. Thank you so much. Dan and I also brought some bags full of goodies home for Halle from the hospital.
Here is sweet Aunt Beverly from Kansas City. Her and Grandma Doris were able to come and visit. This is Dan's dad, Doug's Aunt and step mother. They of course came with bags full of goodies for the girls. They are soooooooo sweet. And I was so happy they were able to come and see Rebekah Joy.
Here is baby Joy with Grandma Doris. Thank you guys for coming to see us and celebrate with us.
Rebekah Joy with her Grandpa Friesen.
Baby Joy with Grandma Friesen.

Thank you Jesus for another gift that we are so undeserving of. She is a beauty. Grant us the love, strength, patience, wisdom and knowledge to parent Little Rebekah Joy. Her life is in your hands. May we not do this on our own but look to you for guidance and instruction. Give us the grace to teach her about you and love her with your love. May her life be full of your blessings and may it be full of your Joy. We love you. Thank you Jesus for your grace. You are all that is good!

Waiting for Rebekah Joy to Arrive


Grandma and Grandpa Friesen came to stay with us for two weeks waiting for baby Rebekah Joy to show her beautiful face. It was so great having them here. We always love the time we get to spend with them. It goes by too fast. Halle really REALLY enjoyed having them here as well. She was the center of attention. She got lots of playtime, hugs, kisses, suckers and ICE CREAM!!! Karen was so amazing and helped keep the house together, our tummies fed (really well), laundry done, and a peaceful home. She wouldn't let me do anything...fold clothes, cook, clean up...nothing! It was such a blessing to have her here. She is such a servant and generous giver of her time, heart, and resources. Jesus shines through her. Thank you Karen! We love you!

Halle also got plenty of attention from mommy and Daddy too leading up to when Rebekah Joy arrived. Daddy took her swimming alot.




Uncle Mike also came for a few days to hopefully meet Rebekah.
Getting ice cream became almost a nightly thing. Halle sure enjoyed it along with everyone else.


Grandpa had to take a short business trip the first week and came back with some goodies for Halle.
Halle loved playing chase with Grandpa or she called it, "runnin." They would stand on opposite sides of the room and count from 1 to three together and then run into one another in the middle or Halle would slip right through Grandpa's legs.

Halle looked forward to getting weighed on Grandma's scale every morning along with getting a spray of perfume and lipstick from her.

We were so blessed having them here for those exciting two weeks. Thankfully Rebekah Joy did make an appearance before they left. Details to follow in the next blog post.

20.6.10

Happy Father's Day to one Awesome Dad

"Train up a child in the way he should go;even when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6

A special Happy Father's Day to my Daddy. I have the best memories of growing up with my Dad. I could tell stories for hours and hours about time spent with my Dad and have the biggest smile and most laughter telling those stories. I always loved when we slept in late on Saturdays and he would come in and wake us up by tickling and wrestling us for hours. He was always so much fun and showed us so much attention. I could always tell he loved to be with us and spending time with us more than anything else he could have been doing. I have always felt and known that my Daddy loves me a whole stinkin lot. He not only showed this love to me, he has also always made a point to tell me how much. He always told me and shown me that God loves me no matter what. I love him so much and wish I could be with him today. He is one wonderful Dad!!!!!! I couldn't have even dreamed of better.

I love you Daddy!!!
And Halle sure does love "PAPA!"
We can't wait to see you in two weeks.

I am Head Over Heels for this Guy


A man who loves the Word of God and loves the Lord with all his heart and all his soul and all his mind. He would love his wife like Christ loves the Church. He would love his family UNCONDITIONAllY and would "...not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." Ephesians 6:4

A special Happy Father's Day shout out to my husband, Dan. I am incredibly blessed to have Dan as my best friend and the Daddy of our girls. I could not love a human being more than I love Dan. He is the best man there is. Dan has been given so many gifts and talents that he continues to grow in everyday. He is an incredible teacher, friend, servant, worker, creator, leader, inventor, manager, singer, guitar player, dreamer, son, HUSBAND, and FATHER. AND he loves JESUS! He teaches me more more about Jesus everyday through his words, actions, and love. I am proud of him and honored beyond all words to live, love and serve beside him.

We love you Baby and I fall more and more in love with you everyday. You are the best Daddy to our girls.


That is one handsome Daddy!!




We were given an incredible gift this past Tuesday...Rebekah Joy!


I walked in Halle's room last night after feeding Rebekah to see how Dan was doing putting Halle to bed and this is what I found. I have to be honest and tell you I was kind a jealous.

HALLE adores her DADDY!

"The righteous who walks in his integrity-- blessed are his children after him!" Proverbs 20:7

playing "I-an get you"....

2.6.10

38 weeks and about to bust


I haven't posted at all yet on the new baby and second pregnancy yet. Shame on me. So now that I am at the end here some tid bits from the pregnancy. A funny thing is, there is a couple in the church who we are great friends with who got married the same exact day, year, and time that Dan and I did. That same couple is having their first child due the very same day ours is due to arrive, June 13th!!! It has been so cool to share this with her. She is an incredible lady and friend. We also have the same doctor and are still measuring right on together. So funny! We are always joking with one another that we may be there side by side rooting each other on. As time is winding down this is becoming more of a possibility. Love sharing this special time with these special people.
  • How far along: 38 weeks and 4 days
  • Total weight gain/loss: I'm not sure, haven't been keeping track...not really wanting to this time around! But I know that I haven't gained anymore in the past few weeks.
  • Stretch marks: none thus far, fingers are crossed!
  • Best moment this week: spending some quality time with Halle before baby comes
  • Food cravings:First trimester was pickles and dairy, like milk and ice cream. This whole pregnancy I have craved citrus fruit. I have ate tons of grape fruit! These last couple of weeks chomping on ice and drinking lots of water to cool me off has been a definite favorite. I take a glass with me wherever I go.
  • Gender: Baby girl!
  • Labor signs: Some BH contractions. Alot of crazy pressure on the cervix. I have been dilated at 2 for 3 weeks two and half weeks now and 50 percent effaced. I feel like the baby has dropped alot.
  • Belly button in or out: Doesn't even seem like there is one there but still in.
  • Current mood: Super tired. Not getting much sleep at night, tossing and turning...and snoring Dan says. I feel like I can't breath. I have had crazy heartburn this pregnancy, but thankfully it has let up some the past couple of weeks. I was eating tums like they were candy. It has been super hard lately to keep up with Halle, especially going anywhere alone with her. I feel bigger and bigger everyday. We are super excited to see our new little girl. I can't wait to meet her. I am a little anxious for Halle's sake and how she will feel and how she will do with a new baby in the house. Halle has been super clingy to me lately, more than ever. And anxious about being a mom to two and loving the new baby girl as much as I do Halle. I can't imagine loving another so much.
  • What I am looking forward to: Deciding on a name for our new baby girl. Saying goodbye to heartburn and sleepless nights....oh yeah, nevermind that. I think that is the way God prepares you for those sleepless nights ahead. I'm looking forward to holding our new baby girl and seeing what color hair she has...ha! I can't wait to kiss her and squeeze her.
  • Milestones: the huge one is fast approaching

1.6.10

Fun in the Sun

Halle loves to be outside. She will gab her shoes every morning and run to the back door. She'll tell me "outside?"...short pause then say, "Kay!" LIke I said yes or something. But who can resist. So we have been soaking up alot of sun and overly getting our daily doses of vitamin D in the back yard. She loves to play in the water hose and her kiddie pool. Then follow it up with ice cream.

We've recently been visiting our friends Katrina and Zion at their backyard pool and sprinkler! They have a slide on their pool...lots of fun!




Here's Z and Halle dancing.
Yum....ice cream sandwiches!

So Halle likes to eat ice just like her mommy. Yes this may scare alot of you. But she does really well with it. She had dropped some of her ice on the ground here and got some dirt on it which Halle has always proved to be a girlie girl. She does not like the dirt on her food, hands, or feet.

cute!



I love these times Halle and I get to spend together. She's my girl!